
Dear Friends and Family
How are all of you? I am doing good. My children are well. My oldest son plays soccer all the time, he is very good. I do not spend much time on the Internet lately.
I would like to share with you how I asked for forgiveness from those people that I hurt when I was drinking alcohol and using drugs.There was a lot of people that I lied to, and I stole from, and I used them to get what I wanted. When I found recovery GOD FORGAVE ME FOR EVERYTHING, but I still had to live with the consequences of what I had been doing. The steps in recovery offer help to deal with our new life.
I had a list of people I hurt from the steps I had already done. I took this list and studied it to see how to ask for forgiveness. I was not to just ask for forgiveness, but I was to tell the person that I was working not to act this way again. I went to many people that I had stolen from and gave them their money back, I also went to my parents and my Friends parents and said I was sorry for not being honest. The only rule was that if my apology was going to hurt someone I was not to do it. My apology was to humble me, and to offer healing, IT WAS NOT TO BE DONE IF IT WOULD CAUSE PROBLEMS IN OTHER PEOPLES LIVES...
Also my apology was to not blame anyone but myself, even if the other person was wrong also. God can take care of the other persons part.
WHY WOULD I DO THIS?
It freed me. I now had freedom to walk in my neighborhood without hiding. It was a hard thing to do, but it was the best thing I ever did in recovery.
I love you all - Chris